The eight limbs of yoga are traditionally presented as a hierarchical progression, but this linear progression toward an idealized goal tends only to reinforce the dualistic idea that yoga is something to "get." It may be more helpful to imagine the eight limbs as the arms and legs of a body--connected to one another through the central body of yoga just as a child's limbs grow in proportion to one another, whatever limb of practice we focus upon inevitably causes the other limbs to grow as well. People who begin yoga through the limb of meditation are often later drawn to practice more physical postures. Those who are drawn to vigorous physical practice later find themselves being drawn into the quieter, more meditative practices just as each limb is essential for the optimal functioning of your body, every limb of yoga practice is important. Growth in practice happens naturally when a person is sincere in her wish to grow.
The eight limbs emanating from a central core consist of the following:
Yamas and Niyamas: Ten ethical precepts that allow us to be at peace with ourselves, our family, and our community.
Asanas: Dynarmic internal dances in the form of postures. These help to keep the body strong, flexible, and relaxed. Their practice strengthens the nervous system and refines our process of inner perception.
Pranayama: Roughly defined as breathing practices, and more specifically defined as practices that help us to develop constancy in the movement of prana, or life force.
Pratyahara: The drawing of one's attention toward silence rather than toward things.
Dharana: Focusing attention and cultivating inner perceptual awareness.
Dhyana: Sustaining awareness under all conditions.
Samadhi: The return of the mind into original silence.
The greater part of this book on yoga will focus on the most down-to-earth practices--the asanas and the practices of breathing and meditation. These form an embodied approach to spiritual practice, where we use the body and all our sensual capacities in the service of regeneration and transformation. This is contrasted to many approaches in which the body is seen as an obstacle that must be transcended. Let us first look at the core principles for living, the yamas and niyamas that form the central vein from which all other yoga practices spring.
The Ten Living Principles
The first limb, or the yamas, consists of
characteristics observed and codified by wise people since the beginning of time
as being central to any life lived in freedom. They are mostly concerned with how we use our energy in
relationship to others and in a subtler sense,
our relationship to ourselves. The sages recognized that stealing from your
neighbor was likely to promote discord, lying to your wife would cause
suffering, and violence begets more violence; the results are hardly conducive
to living a peaceful life. The second limb, the niyamas, constitutes a
code for living in a way that fosters the soulfulness of the individual and has
to do with the choices we make. The yamas and niyamas are emphatic
descriptions of what we are when we are connected to our source. Rather
than a list of dos and don'ts, they tell us that our fundamental nature is compassionate, generous, honest, and,
peaceful.
In the West we are taught from an early age that what we do and what we own sole components for measuring whether we are "successful." We measure our success and that of others through this limited vantage point, judging and dismissing anything that falls outside these narrow parameters. What yoga teaches us is that who we are and how we are constitute the ultimate proof of a life lived in freedom. If you do not truly believe this, it is likely that you will measure success in your yoga practice through the achievement of external forms. This tendency has produced a whole subculture of yoga in the West that is nothing more than sophisticated calisthenics, with those who can bend the farthest or do the most extraordinary yoga postures being deemed masters. Because it's easy to measure physical prowess, we may compare ourselves to others who are more flexible, or more "advanced" in their yoga postures, getting trapped in the belief that the forms of the practice are the goal. These outward feats do not necessarily constitute any evidence of a balanced practice or a balanced life. What these first central precepts the yamas and niyamas ask us to remember is that the techniques and forms are not goals in themselves but vehicles for getting to the essence of who we are.
One of our greatest challenges as Westerners practicing yoga is to learn to perceive progress through "invisible" signs, signs that are quite often unacknowledged by the culture at large. Are we moving toward greater kindness, patience, or tolerance toward others? Are we able to remain calm and centered even when others around us become agitated and angry? How we speak, how we treat others, and how we live are more subjective qualities and attributes we need to learn to recognize in ourselves as a testament to our own progress and as gauges of authenticity in our potential teachers. When we remain committed to our most deeply held values we can begin to discern the difference between the appearance of achievement and the true experience of transformation, and thereby free ourselves to pursue those things of real value.
As you read through the precepts that follow, take the time to dwell upon their relevance to your life and to consider your own personal experiences both past and present in reference to them. You can take almost any situation that arises in your life and consider it from the vantage point of one or more of these precepts. It can also be valuable consciously to choose a precept that you'd like to explore in depth for a month or even a year at a time investigating how the precept works in all aspects of your life. And last, the way in which you approach the practices that follow in this book, and your underlying intentions, will ultimately determine whether your practice bears fruit. As you progress in your yoga practice, take the time to pause frequently and ask "Who am I becoming through this practice? Am I becoming the kind of person I would like to have as a friend?"
Yamas--Wise Characteristics
Ahimsa--Compassion for All Living
Things
Ahimsa is usually translated as nonviolence, but this precept
goes far and beyond the limited penal sense of not killing others. First and
foremost we have to learn how to be nonviolent toward ourselves. If we were able
to play back the often unkind, unhelpful, and destructive comments and judgments
silently made toward our self in any given day, this may give us some idea of
the enormity of the challenge of self-acceptance. If we were to speak these
thoughts out loud to another person, we would realize how truly devastating
violence to the self can be. In truth, few of
us would dare to be as unkind to others as we are to ourselves. This can be as
subtle as the criticism of our body when we look in the mirror in the morning,
or when we denigrate our best efforts. Any thought, word, or action that
prevents us (or someone else) from growing and living freely is one that is
harmful.
Extending this compassion to all living creatures is dependent on our recognition of the underlying unity of all sentient beings. When we begin to recognize that the streams and rivers of the earth are no different from the blood coursing through our arteries, it becomes difficult to remain indifferent to the plight of the world. We naturally find ourselves wanting to protect all living things. It becomes difficult to toss a can into a stream or carve our names in the bark of a tree, for each act would be an act of violence toward ourselves as well. Cultivating an attitude and mode of behavior of harmlessness does not mean that we no longer feel strong emotions such as anger, jealously, or hatred. Learning to see everything through the eyes of compassion demands that we look at even these aspects of our self with acceptance. Paradoxically, when we welcome our feelings of anger, jealousy, or rage rather than see them as signs of our spiritual failure, we can begin to understand the root causes of these feelings and move beyond them. By getting close enough to our own violent tendencies we can begin to understand the root causes of them and learn to contain these energies for our own well-being and for the protection of others. Underneath these feelings we discover a much stronger desire that we all share--to be loved. It is impossible to come to this deeper understanding if we bypass the tough work of facing our inner demons.
In considering ahimsa it's helpful to ask, Are my thoughts, actions, and deeds fostering the growth and well-being of all beings?
Satya--Commitment to the
Truth
This precept is based on the
understanding that honest communication and action form the bedrock of any
healthy relationship, community, or government, and that deliberate deception,
exaggerations, and mistruths harm others. One of the best ways we can develop this capacity is to practice right
speech. This means that when we say something, we are sure of its truth. If we
were to follow this precept with commitment, many of us would have a great deal
less to say each day! A large part of our everyday comments and conversations
are not based upon what we know to be true but are based on our imagination,
suppositions, erroneous conclusions, and sometimes out-and-out exaggerations.
Gossip is probably the worst form of this miscommunication.
Commitment to the truth isn't always easy, but with practice, it's a great deal less complicated and ultimately less painful than avoidance and self-deception.
Proper communication allows us to deal with immediate concerns taking care of little matters before they become big ones.
Probably the hardest form of this practice is being true to our own heart and inner destiny. Confusion and mistrust of our inner values can make it difficult to know the nature of our heart's desire, but even when we become clear enough to recognize what truth means for us, we may lack the courage and conviction to live our truth. Following what we know to be essential for our growth may mean leaving unhealthy relationships or jobs and taking risks that jeopardize our own comfortable position. It may mean making choices that are not supported by consensual reality or ratified by the outer culture. The truth is rarely convenient. One way we can know we are living the truth is that while our choices may not be easy, at the end of the day we feel at peace with ourselves.
Asteya--Not Stealing
Asteya arises out of the understanding that all
misappropriation is an expression of a feeling of lack. And this feeling of lack
usually comes from a belief that our happiness is contingent on external
circumstances and material possessions. Within Western industrialized countries satisfaction can be
contingent upon so many improbable conditions and terms that it is not uncommon
to spend all of one's time hoping for some better life, and imagining that
others (who possess what we do not) have that better life. In constantly looking
outside of ourselves for satisfaction, we are less able to appreciate the
abundance that already exists. That is what really matters--our health and the riches of our inner life
and the joy and love we are able to give and receive from others. It becomes
difficult to appreciate that we have hot running water when all we can think
about is whether our towels are color-coordinated. How can we appreciate our
good fortune in having enough food to eat when we wish we could afford to eat
out more often?
The practice of asteya asks us to be careful not to take anything that has not been freely given. This can be as subtle as inquiring whether someone is free to speak with us on the phone before we launch into a tirade about our problems. Or reserving our questions after a class for another time, rather than hoarding a teacher's attention long after the official class time has ended. In taking someone's time that may not have been freely given, we are, in effect, stealing. The paradox of practicing asteya is that when we relate to others from the vantage point of abundance rather than neediness, we find that others are more generous with us and that life's real treasures begin to flow our way.
This may seem unlikely, so let me share an example. Paul was a medical student and past acquaintance who seemed always to be helping others and sharing his seemingly limited resources. One evening when it became too late for a commute home, I offered Paul my guest room for the night. On awakening in the morning I discovered he had cleaned my refrigerator ("It looked like you'd been busy"). Paul had few financial resources but always seemed to be having wonderful dinner feasts to share with his friends. Later, I found out that he worked late at a local health-food restaurant, and, thankful for the extra hours Paul spent helping out, the owner gave him many of the leftover vegetables, breads, and prepared dishes to take home. When a number of friends joined Paul at a holiday home for a week, Paul initiated a special "clean-up and dust" party that lasted all day ("Just think how great it will be for the owner when he comes back after his trip overseas . . !"). Paul rarely asked for anything but was always surprising his friends with his new acquisitions. People gave things to Paul all the time--even large items like cars and washing machines--not because they felt sorry for him but because his own sense of intrinsic abundance and his own generosity tended to make you feel that, like him, you had a lot to give.
Not stealing demands that we cultivate a certain level of self-sufficiency so that we do not demand more of others, our family, or our community than we need. It means that we don�t take any more than we need, because that would be taking from others. A helpful way of practicing asteya when you find yourself dwelling on the "not enoughs" of your life is to ask: "How is this attitude preventing me from enjoying the things I already have?" Another way of fostering this sense of abundance is to take a moment before going to sleep to dwell on at least one gift in your life. This can be as simple as the gift of having a loving partner or loyal pet, the grace of having good health, or the pleasure of having a garden.
Brahmacharya--Merging with the
One
Of all the precepts, the call
to brahmacharya is the least understood and the most feared by Westerners. Commonly translated as celibacy, this
precept wreaks havoc in the minds and lives of
those who interpret brahmacharya as a necessary act of sexual suppression
or sublimation. All spiritual traditions and religions have wrestled with the
dilemma of how to use sexual energy wisely. Practicing brahmacharya means
that we use our sexual energy to regenerate our connection to our spiritual
self. It also means that we don't use this energy in any way that might harm
another. It doesn't take a genius to recognize that manipulating and using
others sexually creates a host of bad feelings, with the top contenders being
pain, jealousy, attachment, resentment, and blinding hatred. This is one realm
of human experience that is guaranteed to bring out the best and worst in
people, so the ancient Yogis went to great lengths to observe and experiment
with this particular form of energy. It may be easier to understand
brahmacharya if we remove the sexual designation and look at it purely as
energy. Brahmacharya means merging one's energy with God. While the
communion we may experience through making love with another gives us one of the clearest experiences of this
meshing of energies, this experience is meant to be extended beyond discrete
events into a way of life--a kind of omnidimensional celebration of Eros in all
its forms. Whether we achieve this through feeling our breath as it caresses our
lungs, through orgasm, or through celibacy is
not important.
Given the pragmatism of the ancient yogis, it is hard to believe that Patanjali would have put forth a precept that would be so undeniably unsuccessful as selfwined denial. The fall from grace of countless gurus who, while admonishing their devotees to practice celibacy, have wantonly misused their own sexual power gives cause to consider more deeply the appropriateness of such an interpretation. When any energy is sublimated or suppressed, it has the tendency to backfire, expressing itself in life-negating ways. This is not to say that celibacy in and of itself is an unsound practice. When embraced joyfully the containment of sexual energy can be enormously self-nourishing and vitalizing and, at the very least, can provide an opportunity to learn how to use this energy wisely. When celibacy is practiced in this way, there is no sense of stopping oneself from doing or having what one really wants. Ultimately it is not a matter of whether we use our sexual energy but how we use it.
In looking at your own relationship to sexual energy, consider whether the ways you express that energy bring you closer to or farther away from your spiritual self.
Aparigraha--Not
Grasping
Holding on to things and
being free are two mutually exclusive states. The ordinary mind is constantly
manipulating reality to get ground underneath it, building more and more
concretized images of how things are and how others are, as a way of generating
confidence and security. We build self-images and construct concepts and
paradigms that feed our sense of certainty, and we then defend this edifice by
bending every situation to reinforce our certainty. This would be fine if life
were indeed a homogeneous event in which nothing ever changed; but life does
change, and it demands that we adapt and change with it. The resistance to
change, and tenaciously holding on to things, causes great suffering and
prevents us from growing and living life in a more vital and pleasurable way.
What yoga philosophy and all the great
Buddhist teachings tells us is that solidity is a creation of the ordinary mind
and that there never was anything permanent to begin with that we could hold on
to. Life would be much easier and substantially less painful if we lived with
the knowledge of impermanence as the only constant. As we all have discovered at
some time in our lives, whenever we have tried to hold on too tightly to
anything, whether it be possessiveness of our partner or our youthful identity,
this has only led to the destruction of those very things we most value. Our
best security lies in taking down our fences and barricades and allowing
ourselves to grow, and through that growth
becoming stronger and yet more resilient.
The practice of aparigraha also requires that we look at the way we use things to reinforce our sense of identity. The executive ego loves to believe in its own power but unfortunately requires a retinue of foot soldiers in the way of external objects such as the right clothes, car, house, job, or image to maintain this illusion. Because this executive ego is but an illusion created by our sense of separateness, it requires ever greater and more elaborate strategies to keep it clothed. Although the practice of not grasping may first begin as consciously withdrawing our hand from reaching for external things, eventually the need to reach outward at all diminishes until there is a recognition that that which is essential to us is already at hand.
Niyamas-Codes for Living Soulfully
Shaucha--Purity
Shaucha, or
living purely, involves maintaining a cleanliness in body, mind, and
environment so that we can experience ourselves at a higher resolution. The word
pure comes from the Latin purus, which means clean and unadulterated.
When we take in healthy food, untainted by pesticides and unnatural additives,
the body starts to function more smoothly. When we read books that elevate our
consciousness, see movies that inspire, and
associate with gentle people, we are feeding the mind in a way that nourishes
our own peacefulness. Creating a home environment that is elegant, simple, and
uncluttered generates an atmosphere where we are not constantly distracted by
the paraphernalia of yesterday's projects and last year's knickknacks.
Shaucha is a testament to the positive power of association.
Practicing shaucha, meaning "that and nothing else," involves making choices about what you want and don't want in your life. Far from self-deprivation or dry piety, the practice of shaucha allows you to experience life more vividly. A clean plate enjoys the sweetness of an apple and the taste of pure water; a clear mind can appreciate the beauty of poetry and the wisdom imparted in a story; a polished table reveals the deep grain of the wood. This practice both generates beauty and allows us to appreciate it in all its many forms.
Santosha--Contentment
Santosha, or the
practice of contentment, is the ability to feel satisfied within
the container of one's immediate experience. Contentment shouldn't be confused
with happiness, for we can be in difficult, even painful circumstances and still
find some semblance of contentment if we are able to see things as they are
without the conflictual pull of our expectations. Contentment also should not be
confused with complacency, in which we allow ourselves to stagnate in our
growth. Rather it is a sign that we are at
peace with whatever stage of growth we are in and the circumstances we find
ourselves in. This doesn't mean that we accept or tolerate unhealthy relationships or working conditions. But it may
mean that we practice patience and attempt to live as best we can within our
situation until we are able to better our conditions.
Contentment not only implies acceptance of the present but tends to generate the capacity for hopefulness. This may seem contradictory but is not. When you are equanimous within any situation, this strengthens your faith that there is the possibility of living even more fully. This possibility is not held out as something to look forward to, nor does it have the negative effect of making you feel dissatisfied until those hopes are gratified. Rather, the ability to sustain one's spirits even in dire situations, is proof that a central sense of balance is rarely contingent on circumstances. And, sustaining hopefulness, even when there are few signs that things win improve, is one very good way of fostering contentment.
Tapas--Burning
Enthusiasm
Literally translated as
"fire" or "heat," tapas is the disciplined use of our energy. Because the
word discipline has the negative connotation of self-coercion, I take the
liberty here of translating this central precept as "burning enthusiasm." When
we can generate an attitude of burning ardor, the strength of our convictions
generates a momentum that carries us forward.
We all know how even a seemingly boring or unpleasant task like cleaning the
house can be transformed when we work with vigor and impulsion. Suddenly cleaning the toilet becomes
fun, hauling heavy loads invigorating, and
dusting the furniture absorbing. Tapas is a way of directing our energy. Like a focused beam of light cutting through
the dark, tapas keeps us on track so that we don't waste our time and
energy on superfluous or trivial matters. When this energy is strong, so also
are the processes of transmutation and metamorphism.
We are not all equally possessed of the disciplined energy of tapas. Some people need to work more earnestly to kindle the flames of tapas, and it is at these times that it is helpful to have a kind of parental consciousness coupled with a good sense of humor. Our actions are then guided by a part of the self that knows what's good for it, which is aided by the ability to laugh in the face of one's neuroses, lethargy, or addictions. Even the laser minds among us have days when it takes a sheer act of will to get out of bed, turn to our studies, or withdraw the hand that reaches for a second slice of cake. If you have little enthusiasm yourself, it can be enormously helpful to seek the company of those who have this quality in abundance. Attending a class with an inspiring teacher or practicing yoga with a friend who has already established a strong practice can help to stimulate tapas within yourself. Once activated, however, the embers of tapas tend to generate more and more heat and momentum, which makes each subsequent effort less difficult. The analogy of a fire is fitting for this precept. Once a fire has completely died out it can take a great deal of effort to start it up again. When you do get a fire to light, the tentative embers must be fed at regular intervals or the fire dies out again. But once the fire is roaring, it is easy to sustain.
For what greater purpose do we need tapas, or discipline? Pema Ch�dr�n, the Abbot of Gampo Abbey in Cape Breton, Nova Scotia, and the author of many books on Tibetan Buddhism, tells us that "what we discipline is not our 'badness' or our 'wrongness.' What we discipline is any form of potential escape from reality" (italics added). When we're not living in this disciplined awareness, our willing tactics of avoidance create an endless cycle of more suffering for ourselves. These avoidance tactics may temporarily placate our senses, but they create a deep form of unhappiness. On some level we know we're not being true to ourselves or our potential. Discipline is having enough respect for yourself to make choices that truly nourish your well-being and provide opportunities for expansive growth. Far from being a kind of medicinal punishment, tapas allows us to direct our energy toward a fulfilled life of meaning and one that is exciting and pleasurable.
Swadhyaya--Self-Study
Any activity that cultivates self-reflective consciousness
can be considered swadhyaya. The soul tends to be lured by those
activities that will best illuminate it. Because people are so different in
their proclivities, one person may be drawn to write, while another will
discover herself through painting or athletics. Another person may come to know
himself through mastering an instrument, or through service at a hospice. Still
another may learn hidden aspects of herself through the practice of meditation.
The form that this self-study takes is inconsequential. Whatever the practice,
as long as there is an intention to know yourself through it, and the commitment
to see the process through, almost any activity can become an opportunity for learning about yourself. Swadhyaya
means staying with our process through thick and thin because it's usually
when the going gets rough that we have the greatest opportunity to learn about
ourselves.
While self-study uncovers our strengths, authentic swadhyaya also ruthlessly uncovers our weakness, foibles, addictions, habit patterns, and negative tendencies. This isn't always the most cheering news. The worst thing we can do at these times is give ourselves the double whammy of both uncovering a soft spot and beating ourselves up for what we perceive as a fatal flaw. At these times, it's important actually to welcome and accept our limitations. When we welcome a limitation, we can get close enough to ourselves to see the roots of our anger, impatience, or self-loathing. We can have a little compassion, for the forces and conditions that molded our behaviors and beliefs, and in so doing develop more skill in handling, containing, and redirecting previously self-destructive tendencies. The degree to which we can do this for ourselves is the degree to which we will be tolerant of other people's weaknesses and flaws. Self-study is a big task.
Self-study also can become psychically incestuous when the same self that may be confused and fragmented attempts to see itself. This is why it can be so helpful (not to mention expedient) to secure the help of a mentor, teacher, or close friend to support your self-study. If you've ever said that someone "just doesn't see himself" and watched him enact the same self-destructive behaviors again and again, just consider how likely it is that you too are blind to your own faults. A skillful mentor, and that can be anyone from a wise aunt to a therapist to a bona fide guru, can find loving ways to help you see yourself as you really are.
Ishvarapranidhana--Celebration of the
Spiritual
Life is not inherently
meaningful. We make meaning happen through the attention and care we
express through our actions. We make meaning happen when we set a table with
care, when we light a candle before practicing, or when we remove our shoes
before entering a temple. Yoga tells us that the spiritual suffuses everything
it is simply that we are too busy, too distracted, or too insensitive to notice
the extraordinary omnipresence that dwells in all things. So one of the first
ways that we can practice ishvarapranidhana
is by putting aside some time each day, even a few minutes, to avail ourselves of an intelligence larger than
our own. This might take the form of communing with your garden at dawn, taking
a few moments on the bus to breathe slowly and clear your mind, or engaging in a
more formal practice such as a daily reading, prayer, ritual, or meditation.
This practice requires that we have recognized that there is some omnipresent
force larger than ourselves that is guiding and directing the course of our
lives. We all have had the experience of looking back at some event in our life that at the time may
have seemed painful, confusing and disruptive, but later, in retrospect, made
perfect sense in the context of our personal destiny. We recognize that the
change that occurred during that time was
necessary for our growth, and that we are happier for it. The catch is that it's
hard to see the bigger picture when you think you are the great controller
of your life. When you are the great
controller, you fail to recognize that supposed coincidences, accidents and
chance meetings all have some greater significance i the larger scheme of your
destiny. When you are the master of your universe, it's hard to trust anything but your own self-made plans. When
we don't have this recognition that there's a bigger story going on, we get
caught up in our personal drama and a frustrating cycle of resistance to change.
Ishvarapranidhana asks us to go quietly, even when it's not possible to see exactly where
things are headed. At first this can be
frightening, like being suspended in the air between one trapeze bar and
another, but, over time, this not knowing exactly how life is going to unfold
and the giving up of our frantic attempts to manipulate and control makes each
day an adventure. It makes our life a horse race right up until the very
finish!
Ultimately, ishvarapranidhana means surrendering our personal will to this intelligence so we can fulfill our destiny. The first step in this practice is attuning ourselves to perceive a larger perspective. By setting aside enough time to get quiet and clear, we can begin to differentiate between the cluttered thoughts of our ordinary mind and the resonant intelligence that comes through as intuition. Rather than trying to unravel the mystery, we start to embody the mystery of life. When we embody the mystery, we begin to experience meaning. Where before we experienced numbness. When we drink a glass of water, we taste it; when a cool breeze brushes our bare skin, we feel it; and when a stranger speaks to us, we listen. Everything and anything can become a sign of this intelligence. Eventually we are spontaneously drawn to look at the purpose of our life with a new eye. One starts to ask, How can my life be useful to others? Living the insurance nor a guarantee but it is neither spiritual rain against living a meaningless life, a life that at its end we regret.